Dave Williams asked:
Sounds like a teeny question, I know its dumb. But I’m in my 30’s and very shy so bear with me. A few months ago this girl in the office (hot) was standing around and my boss comes over to me and says, in front of her, “Tina has been talking about you, Greg”. She then turns away and covers her face and my boss says to her “come on tell him what you told me before Tina”.
Sounds like a teeny question, I know its dumb. But I’m in my 30’s and very shy so bear with me. A few months ago this girl in the office (hot) was standing around and my boss comes over to me and says, in front of her, “Tina has been talking about you, Greg”. She then turns away and covers her face and my boss says to her “come on tell him what you told me before Tina”.
Well later I asked my boss and he said he was only “trying to embarrass her”. I should have pressed further but I didnt. Was this some kind of joke on me or do you think she might be into me? Shes cute and I’d definetely go out with her. I am considered good looking but very shy, so I’m somewhat hesitant to ask her out. Its been about 2 months since this happened now and she hardly talks to me, so that has me thinking mabye shes really not into me. But why would she act so embarrassed when my boss said that then?
What do you think?
Carmen
Kenneth
JOKE!!!
Corey
She was probably into you then.
But because you haven’t talked to her in 2 months she’s moved on.
Michael
well she’s probably shy too
try telling her that u like her
and see what she says
Dawn
it sounds to me that it really was just a joke(at her expense), and maybe shes not all that into you and is trying to avoid hurting your feelings, all the while still being embarrassed….but seriously if youre really diggin the chick than you should just talk to her, get to know her, you may find it easier to try being more then co-workers if you actually communicate!
Sandra
i think if she was into you she would throw out more clues than just that. your boss could have just wanted to embaress her. ive done that before to my friends just to get a reaction out of them. but all of this doesnt mean she may not be intrested in you. just go up and talk to her and see where it goes from there. you only live life once so take chances and have fun!
good luck
Philip
Well if you consider yourself also good-looking, i would say most likely it was not a joke. When your boss called her out, most likely she got nervous, which most people would have. If she was laughing though, it probably was a joke, but if she wasnt im sure she was talking about you. (You could always ask your boss if it was a joke, and he if he laughs and says yes, then you dont have to waste your time on her, its not so bad) Girls tend to like “mysterious” guys which you may give off. Try not to be to nervous, I’d say she most likely likes you, so go for it man, just act like yourself, since that is what she has seen of you so far and if it has attracted her, just keep it up. Good luck man
Sean
it sounds like she was so to embarrassed that she can’t face you after this all you can do is ask her if she is interested in you or not.
Jane
Maybe she does like you. Try asking her out. She might be too embarised to talk to you because of what your boss said.